told W on my plans to go to see my brother on the 20th thru the 21st. She asked why I was going. I was told her that I have to take care of some paper work regarding our D. She wasn't satisfied with that answer and pressed me for more info. I reminded her that she wants us to start maintain our separate lives. She does her thing and I do mine and I am not to ask or question what she is doing. And vice versus.
She has a scheduling conflict with me going on the 20th thru the 21st so I started looking at our calendar and see if I could accommodate her schedule. I asked her if various dates would better and there were none. I said I would look into it when I get back from my errands.
Before I could get the schedule sorted out to better fit both our schedules she went ahead and made plans on the evening of the 20th. She did this to block me from my plans on the 20th.
