Is this dropping the rope? Did I make a mistake?

[DFE]

I saw him at a business meeting yesterday. He had to leave early but walked over and gave me a long hug in front of everyone. Very unusual for him. I don't think he's done. He doesn't act like a man who is ready to move on. I know if he saw me with another man it would crush him. I want to ask him if he would be ok with a mother man being intimate with me or spending time with his kids. If he's ok with it then we are done. Don't know why I can't just let go.