Two Roads Diverged In a Yellow Wood... Part 2

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Maybe someone has an idea on how I can handle this one!

So he is going to stay temporarily at his brother or sister's apartment, I am guessing while he looks for a place of his own. (Perhaps he can rent while we start to figure out the separation agreement?). In the meantime, he is using our house as his own, while I am still living here. His clothes are all still here, he will drop by after work to hang out with the children, put them to bed, etc. Thing is that I do not want to be around him, it upsets me too much and I want to start moving on. Does anyone know how to balance this? Should I set some boundaries, like stating he calls before he comes over to arrange a time, etc? I feel like throwing his clothes out the window! haha, so cliche.

He's got his folded laundry piled up in my living room right now and before he leaves each evening he will pick through and find his clothes and pack his 'getaway bag'. This is quite emotional for me to see him packing his getaway bag and leaving, over and over again. Perhaps I should make myself scarce every time he is about to leave until I can get a grip on my emotions!