File this under the category of "if you don't want to know, don't ask (or go looking). OM confirmed. Caught my W with her Physical Therapist in her car having S. Don't ask me how of why, but I had this heart crushing bad feeling which pulled me to where she has physical therapy. I couldn't stop myself. I was almost there when out of the corner of my eye I caught her SUV in a small parking lot by a ball field off the side of the road. Had her car not been white, I probably wouldn't have seen it. I pulled in and hit he high beams.
They freaks out and locked the doors. She threw on her clothes and came out the other door locking him back in. He just laid in the back covering his eyes. After a few minutes of arguing he slipped out of the opposite side and jumped into his car. I almost got to him but the W was pulling on me and I didnt want to hurt her so he got in his car and drove away.
The W and I sat there and talked for a few hours afterward. She explained it was just meaningless S with a "co worker" and begged me to let it go. I more angry that this guy was such a coward and left her in a dark parking lot with a pissed off husband, and dint try to protect her or call the cops, he just left her there. Of course she defended him and again asked me to let it go.
I guess everyone hunks I am an idiot, including her because she lied to me. He guy has a distinctive car, and I later recognized it as her therapists car. Haven't confronted her about that yet. It makes sense in a way, as she spent more time with his guy in the past year than me, and I am sure he has been working it. (She does PT 3 days week)..
So now what? She calls me when there's an issue with the car, or he house, but I know they are still hooking up albeit not as sneaky. Now they just wait until everyone leaves the office and are doing it right there.
So everything is explained...the working out , the new tighter younger looking clothes, the long hours at PT, ect.trust me guys....if you don't want to know...don't go looking
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
