At least he's honest with you! I can see my H saying that he is not happy but doesn't like to be alone. I think that is part of why he hasn't initiated anything. I think it is also the easy road and allows them to not do any "work" on themselves or the M.

You told him that you are giving him space and that you do care. Do you think that is enough? I think that if you are going to reach out, you have to do it without expectations and prepare yourself for some of the stuff you said above about no flirty texts, etc.

Bug is right, where is the instruction manual?


M44 H57
D17 (special needs)
M 18 yrs
Bomb 7/2/12
Still living together