I agree with Mrbond here, though I feel he should elaborate smile IMO I feel that if he is bulldozed into going somewhere where he doesn't want to go then he is going to be negative all the way.
You've asked for any suggestions, so here is mine smile I think you said that you go to church, correct me if I wrong. They do social groups where I live such as a craft club or a coffee morning. It will give you something else to do and you will get to meet new friends. If you don't go to church, then you'll still be welcomed smile They don't talk religion all the time and most are the best friends that you will ever meet smile
Have a look in the local paper to see what events are coming up. The other group that I take part in is a charity committee to organise a village carnival. I've met a couple of good friends on there as well and I'm off out with them on Saturday smile
If you've got a local college nearby sign up to do a course. It can be a recreational course or a certificated course. It could be something you've always wanted to do but never got round to it. It's never too late to learn, I'm living proof of this smile I've just started level 3 beauty therapy at 48 years old smile
Anyway I think I've given you enough to be going on with smile You go girl!


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S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!