In our first mc session,amongst all the lies, one great line came out....." I don't want to have to do all the work that the rebuilding of trust requires" .

I wonder if that line applies to your WAS as well

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13