MrBond...I find your responses invaluable! I mean you put it out there and make you realize what is the root of what is going on in our minds.

Do you find there is a difference between the male vs female WAS in coming full circle and returning? I sometimes think the male is proud to admit what he did and come back.

I don't think JJ was saying he wanted closure as much as "disclosure". Putting it all on the table.


M: 49 H: 49
S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago)
M: 21yrs
BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months)
D: 3/11/11
Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery
X: engaged w/OW