"W does not want a R.
W does not believe in my changes.
W does not want to forgive my family.
W does not need me nor want my help. She's in better financial shape than I am.
She and the kids are spending time with OM every weekend. They are probably pursuing a serious relationship.
OM is in fact a step up compared to me. Younger, well built, better paid, attentive, etc..."

Do you know how many people have heard this and have reconciled? That part is up to you.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER