Me- LBS or WAS?

[littleGTO]

I'm all about a girl's night out in October! Tori will have to join us too! Of course PS is invited!

I think grace said it best on your thread...that maybe H's just don't have a clue how to head back in our direction and it's going to take them more TIME to figure it out.

I'm not sure how much more time I have in me to "wait" to see if H will eventually down the line maybe think about wanting to reconnect. I don't think he has even really seriously entertained that idea.

I think he's still waiting for OW to be back in his life (just projecting--I have no recent evidence of this except that he's said "nothing has changed" and last time we talked he said if the magic wand was waved he would want a R with OW.)

I have a tentative "timeline" to see where I'm at at the beginning of Nov (1 year after he moved out). If there has been absolutely no movement then I can't really believe I will want to continue a R that doesn't even exist any more anyway.

I am to the point now where D doesn't scare me. I won't be giving up a M--that is already gone. The only part about it that scares me is giving up time w my boys. And, I am working on being okay with that, knowing that their dad loves them and it is critical to their health and happiness to have a good R with him.