I have been thinking about this a lot today and I am going to wait and see what w does next.
Nonetheless, it would seem that it might not be a bad thing to do ... to simply ask w to meet for drinks, provide details, and be assertive. Given that w has asked me the last few times, I would just be reciprocating the gesture. If I was ignored or turned down, I would back way off. Definitely no full court pressure. Anyway, for now I am going to let w lead for a while before I try that change up.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)