I am leaning that way TTD. A simple email but,I am still recalling how she totally dissed me on the anniversary 3 weeks ago. I understand how she is supposedly feeling, wants nothing to do with me etc etc. So my question is why should I even bother sending an email saying happy birthday. It will most likely end up with her ignoring it with no thank you per WAS attitude in this case. If I send it and she ignores it then my going dark and n/c has been blown. So the other thought being is not saying anything wont affect her either because of the way she is thinking and treating me. Correct? I hate this crap..

Anyone reading this is free to put up their thoughts. Birthday is not until tuesday....


quote=2old