I think the romance is, at least in my case, to early. We're still in the friends stage, the co-parenting stage, the no pressure stage, the no expectation stage. And, most importantly, the i'm still working on me stage, that work will never stop, as it will always be there to reinforce the changes. Like the story goes, be patient cause actions are worth a LOT more than words. Its like novocaine, give it time, it eventually kicks in if your doing it right, if not change what your doing wrong.
Since I was out of town for 10 days doing a custom kitchen, with no internet (gulp, that was hard) I really need to go back and catch up on some sitches.
Hope all is going well for everyone, or as steady as can be expected. Eventually the highs and lows of the roller coaster flatten out, by your choice, or just acceptance of the sitch.