Is there's anything left of everything we had...

[Not Quitting]

I have to wonder sometimes just what is going through H's head

H agreed that he needed to tell S13 face to face (or "man to man" as he put it) that he's not moving back home before there's any mention of OW. So what does he do - changes his FB profile picture to one of him and OW. And H is one of S13's FB friends. Go figure! So far, I've managed to keep S13 off FB but I'm not going to be able to keep doing that. His excuse was "he knows I've got a friend, he saw us together or have you forgotten? That's if he remembers.".

We also hadn't told two good mutual friends in the UK about our sitch. They're going to figure something's going on once they see the new profile pic. I decided to message them both and just let them know that H and I have separated, no other details given. At least they'll hear it from one of us rather than having to figure things out for themselves by seeing the new pic.

When I first found out I thought the roller coaster was about to start again , just when it was slowing down , but so far I've been unemotional. I did tell H that if S13 asks if the woman in the photo is a GF I won't lie.