I'll have to check out Flylady. And if I could put all of H's stuff in one bag I'd be happy. He only took minimal with him when he moved out because it was at that time only a "trial" so now I've got boxes of his stuff to deal with.

I need to declutter just about every room in the house - toys that S13 has outgrown, stuff my dad brought with him when he moved back in, stuff I shipped over from the UK that is still in the shipping crates, etc, etc, etc.

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S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks