wife hardends heart-4

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W does not want a R.
W does not believe in my changes.
W does not want to forgive my family.
W does not need me nor want my help. She's in better financial shape than I am.
She and the kids are spending time with OM every weekend. They are probably pursuing a serious relationship.
OM is in fact a step up compared to me. Younger, well built, better paid, attentive, etc...

I just started to be a better father.
I tried to fill in my spare time with activities however small.
That's all I have done. I don't think that's going to change her mind though.