My husband hasn't left yet, he told me the typical, something is missing, I never really felt love, I'd like to be happy 11 days ago, I cried asked him to think this over, and could we get counselling, NO to the counselling. The next day I asked for a hug, he did, and said I'm sorry... and since then radio silence on the topic. I've been doing my thing, trying to cope, find things to do with my time, cry alone, keep things together.. But I'm not sure the STATUS.. we have been married for 26 years. Not sure what my next move should be, I feel if he moves out, its hopeless. BTW we share a house now, and own one that vacant he could easily move there. Our sons bday is the 17th.. I'm sorta thinking he's hanging around until then...confused