2old, thanks for posting that quote about detaching. I’ve read so many times before on this board, that the turning point in a lot of sitches is when LBS truly gives ups and starts moving on with his/her life.

Lefty, I’ve been catching up on your sitch. You are getting lots of good advice here.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state