I think we can safely say you're still well and truly in her thoughts.
She sounds quite messed up right now. If she weren't she wouldn't be texting you so often with such mundane messages.
My advice is be selective with which messages you reply to. Only respond to ones that are really necessary - eg family, house etc. At the moment you are doing what SHE wants and SHE is in control. You need to take that control off her and respond only when it suits YOU and don't mention her taking you back again anytime soon. PRESSURE, PRESSURE, PRESSURE!!
Well done in being courteous in your replies, but you didn't say how you dealt with the 'you are still trying to control me' comment. Hopefully you validated that statement, SO IMPORTANT!! because although she will have meant every word of it, your validation would have totally taken the sting out of it without it degenerating into a pointless argument.
This whole process, whether you realise it yet or not, is total psychology and nothing else. Recognise that fact and you will come out of this a far wiser person.
FF999
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11
