So stubborn Bright, so stubborn. You are spot on. I read that in MLC terms he is a low-energy wallower (if thats what he is). Fantastic.

One thing he said in our conversation before it got heated was that he hadn't looked inwards for 'obvious reasons' . I am not sure if that meant because obviously it is painful or obviously because he is with OW. It doesn't matter. Either way, he hasn't. Maybe I should take it as he 'recognises' that he has not done that, and see the positive in that...the recognition.

Thank you Bright for your posts and support. It took me a long time to get here. And I know I still have a long way to go. I spent too much time in denial, but it was/is my path. We keep pole dancing....

The belly dancing classes must be fun! I am Egyptian and belly dancing is supposed to be in my DNA...I try at times...but lol...its very comical when I do. Enjoy! Its great for core strength! (((((((bright)))))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home