Busting, yes your H has not faced himself and his actions yet. This is why he keeps blaming you and thinking that if have an official D his life would be better. He also hasn’t fully realized yet how his actions impact the kids. Looking at your sitch’s timeline and comparing to others, I can say that your H is a very stubborn one. It will take him longer to figure out stuff. I can say the same thing about my H too.
I’m glad that you are in a better place emotionally. You are lucky to have your kids, and friends, and being able to do things for fun. Yes, we will keep pole dancing… I started the belly dance classes this week. It was so much fun!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
