Imo, do not budge on using a L...my W wanted to not use a L and I put a big boundary there, saying...:This is too important to all of us, you, me, the kids, to NOT do it correctly", or something like that.
Hang in there!!
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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