Our mortgage expires this October and needs to be renewed then. My W has told the dance teacher we are moving next year. Rates are low just now, but appear to be on the way up. We need to decide what term to lock into for this next round. According to the bank, you can often take a cheap loan with you when (if!) you move, and also can offer it to those who buy your house or apartment. I feel we should take another 3 year term, which is at a higher rate than for 1 year, and which gives us this take it with you/sell it to the next person flexibility. My W may, I imagine, feel differently, and propose just 1 year.
An ideal opportunity to assert myself! I suppose it boils down to we both state our position and then negotiate? It'd be great to have this not turn into a barometer for how long we will still be married or live here.
Have proposed to meetup for sunset drumming at a local (lake) beach here on Saturday.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
