Do you have any children Starsky? That's my biggest concern.
Yes, four. At the time of my wife's affair, they were D20, D18, S16 and S12. They were the primary reason(s) why I fought as hard as I did, and I feel very fortunate, blessed and thankful -- for THEIR sake -- that my wife and I were able to save our marriage. We have since celebrated our 50th birthdays, our 25th wedding anniversary, and the birth of our first grandchild, a little girl now GD3. She's doing a sleepover at our house tomorrow night and she is the apple of my eye.