So what do I do now? I feel like it's still not over.
I would let things simmer for now to give him time to think about it and process, but also would definitely follow through at some point so you don't come across as someone who is firing blanks - you'll lose credibility. Think about a realistic time frame and stick to it - no need to tell him what that time frame is.
-PM
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