Fly: you are doing great; what you are doing seems to be working. (Maybe you got a lucky break with the friend moving away :))

My personal goal is to establish some level of romance back into the relationship before living with my w again and it seems like you would want that too. I have always felt like I would insist on counseling or a marriage workshop or something like that prior to living together again.

You're a bit ahead of me in the process, so i am watching your switch to see what might work for me.

Good luck!!!


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)