So you are saying that you are less of man by not pursuing her? Really? Wow.
Go ahead. Chase her. Put on a full court press. See where that gets you.
While we were together she planed most of our dates, romantic get-always, and vacations. It would be a 180 for me to take initiative. I know that doing it now flys in the face of the "not pursuing rule"..
I'll be patient and see what happens next time something comes up...
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)