Window of opportunity or just a mirage

[2ndtimearoundCA]

So the pattern continues. She reaches out. Plans fall through or communication drops off. I wait. Time goes by. She reaches out again...

I keep thinking .."keep doing the same thing, keep getting the same result"

But what could I do differently? My choices seem to be

1. Be more of a man by pursuing her and asking her to do something at a particular time at a particular place. (I have not done this except maybe the Vegas trip which was probably too much)

2. Next time she reaches out ignore her completely.