^^^ Agree. When H asks me, I answer truthfully all the time.^^^

I don't expound but I answer truthfully and neutrally.

Example, H checks my phone, ostensibly to say,...oh my name is "first name, last initial...nice"
Second in line is text name from a guy I just met.
H asks, "Are you dating?"
I said no...truthful, to the point, didn't add extra and H couldn't ask anything else without asking about unknown male texter and thereby blowing his cover...:P