BK, it you want his help, why not just ask? Don't put D in the driver's seat, she may or may not want him to walk her. Kids are fickle and mercurial.

But if you want/need his help, say that.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss