Just friends is OK for now

[Not Quitting]

I'll have to try the 3 minute rule as well. I've really got to declutter - and maybe start packing up the stuff that H didn't take with him yet. Every time I think about starting I take one look at the bottom of the bedroom closet and get put off from doing that much work at that time, and of course I haven't gotten back to it yet.

At least you're doing stuff that tries your patience when you get that feeling. I was curled up with a good novel while H and S13 played when I found myself thinking "isn't it time you left?". And yes, there have been times when I'm not sure I want to stay on this rollercoaster - I completely avoid those things when I'm at the theme park LOL.