FMF, sorry to see you here, but you will find a huge support system.
A word of warning-your inlaws will tell you they love you, support you etc etc. which is great. Never, ever, ever, confide to anyone in H's family, no matter how close you are or how much they love you. It will invariably get back to your H but with someone else's take on the comments.
We all know from experience that how we view things and how anyone else views the exact same thing is different. That interpretation of comments are subjective.
