In Boston? We had adventures - winter hiking and camping, biking in Iceland, hiking, cooking together. I weightlifted. We had romance: my wife covered my bed in roses one day. We had a crate of open Lindt chocolates under our bed for the lazy, lay in bed mornings, my then girlfriend (now W) coming late to work.
And sex, drugs and rock'n'roll, though not necessarily in that order, too.
Have put up the pictures (which I like) which W gave me. Will make up my son's bed, with my wife at home to increase the assertiveness challenge, which is currently stripped, and sleep up there before I leave. Why should I be isolated downstairs when I do not like it? Doing nothing and just accepting things as they are is not good.
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Just saw T - very interesting: she said to be more concrete about a guys' get together - say when and where instead of just asking a vague ''would you be interested?' question. Also, as I work alone, without much human contact for most of my days, and then do not do anything at night, she proposed that I start a lunch club for guys who work alone here in town. Her challenge (and we meet in a month again to see how it is going) is to have contacted guys I know about this and put concrete plans together. She knows a bunch of guys who she thinks would like this, and will do her part also, spreading this by word of mouth.
Thanks,
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
