All Out of Options

[MyNewStrength]

Good morning. Thank you TTD, AS, NQ, and HW. I am trying to have a PMA, but I am still having my days and I know that is okay to experience. And while I should not analyze every move he H makes, he CANNOT stop taking about the sep/div. H is still the instigator and wants to talk all the time.

Yesterday at work, I reviewed the numbers on the current house expenses. H is really pushing for me to keep the house, but I am not sure if it is good move for me..

I still need to think about it, but he is not understanding that. I have year end tasks that are going on right now and I know he wants to control want is happening and that I should validate him and his wants. I did last tonight, but I also told him to have good nights' rest, ended the conversation, and went back to bed. (he came to my bedroom door and knocked after I was already in bed - like it was bothering him and him pursuing me about the SEP/DIV)

I hope I did the right thing....