Sandi2: Yes he has had his Testosterone tested a few years ago. It was extremely low and he went on weekly testosterone injections. What a difference. He became nicer and more patient and he couldn't keep his hands off of me. We still had arguments but it rarely lasted more than a few hours. He stopped the injections because he didn't want his body to get used to it and BAM!!! That's when it all started. The fights, lack of sex drive, irritability, and then the separation.

Since he moved out he has gone back on the injections but says he doesn't feel like he did before. The doctor is still trying to adjust the dosage.

He has gone to IC in the past but only a few sessions and only because I convinced him to go. He doesn't feel he has an issue and thinks its a waste of time. I'm prepared to move on but I don't feel it's over. I may be crazy but I feel the love between us. I think we can get that fire again but I don't think it's something I would tell him. I think he has to figure it out on his own. Hopefully it won't be too late.


M12
Kids 2
ILYBINILWY 08/05
Reconciled 05/06
S07/12
Moved back 03/13
Separated Again 06/24/13
Back Again (his choice) 02/14
Leaving again 03/23/14
DIVORCED 02/15