Okay all. It looks like the DB admin has approved my new name on the boards. it is now MyNewStrength and denotes the directions I am moving forward with. I hope everyone likes and I thank Everyone for the words of advice and support.
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years