Before all of this I barely spent any time away from my H. Lately I have been enjoying the free time as well, reading books, going for walks, enjoying a glass of wine while watching my favourite shows. I realize that life will go on with or without him, and the world doesn't revolve around him. Create your own happiness! Ok, that was sappy, sorry!
-cp
Sappiness is allowed cp.
I've begun to realize that I can be on my own, and that I will be fine with or without H. In fact, on Sunday when he came to the house for his weekly visit with S13, I found myself anxious for him to leave by the end of the afternoon.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks