I get you now, it's not about the W, it's about the kids smile I can imagine that you must miss them like crazy!
Being in limbo with your life must be hard. We all get used to being in limbo with the spouse, but if you don't like where you live then that's a bummer!
Sounds like you can do a lot more GALing when you move and will totally push your W and your Marriage to the back of your mind smile
Hope your transfer comes up soon smile

H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!