I found out today that we had been set for a hearing in 3 weeks, so I had to really press W - my attorney said we'd have to start our response by Friday (now Wed). I won't need to even do a response if W gets her paperwork switched; but I don't want to just take it on faith and then get screwed some how.
Dang it, I was dark for 24 hours! But then it was just business that I couldn't avoid, so I'm still counting it.
@Wonka - I actually did say that - told her I'd assume we'd see each other at the final divorce hearing if I didn't hear from her next Tuesday. W has shown no desire to dismiss or delay the divorce, or do anything that is the "right thing" - even though she says she loves me, wants to be married, blah blah blah
