I need some feedback from anyone or everyone who see's this. I am really stuck as to whether I should wish my WAW a simple happy birthday in an email or should I stay dark? The current sitch is she was going to be getting back to me regarding the matter of filing for divorce. 3 weeks later she has yet to contact me and I have been n/c since. I have one trusted vet who has expressed their opinion and I indeed respect it much. If I am detaching lovingly wouldn't it only make sense to at least email a happy birthday or should I continue staying n/c because truthfully I get nothing from her unless I initiate and even then she doesn't give anything much in response. It's 5 months since BD next week on her Bday tuesday. Input will be appreciated....

Thanks,

2old.....wayyyyyyyyyy 2old for this shirt......

Oh and ttd, its another day and all is PMA still!!!!!!!!!!!!


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