"It'd be fun to horseplay with my wife or daughter."

So why don't you do that? Start with your D first.

"When I'm frustrated I feel like hitting things sometimes."

So do it. Go out and get a punching bag and let loose. You have to let that side of you out every now and then.

"Perhaps put out a "the guys are meeting at XYZ" this weekend email? I like Adinva's idea of organizing hikes - perhaps something in that direction. There are 5-6 of us this would go to."

So do it. You went to Boston and you don't drink? That's a first. Just kidding. What did you like to do before in Boston? Surely you weren't so prim and proper back then. Start doing and stop thinking.

"Let me think some more about the pro-active stuff. "

Good.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER