The couselor likes to hit up the past. Reminds me of the cheesless tunnels. Every time she and W do, my ego and confidence takes a hyoooge hit. They did it again last night, and W even stated that "It really wasn't a big deal". Then WTF did you bring it up. BUT the counselor did point out that we do have a big communication breakdown. And EACH of us has to work on it. Direct/Simple/Clear statements. Not "wishing", "thinking", communication. Whew.
So this AM I remembered the Cheeseless tunnel. I got to drop kids off at ice skating. The cashier told me that I could get 20 half hour sessions for $90. so I'd save $30. I txtd W that this deal was available and that I paid the regular $12. she calls me to discuss that we will do it next time. Cool. when I got to work, I e-mailed her and just said" Hey Hon, I really appreciate the call this am. Even if it was only for an ice skating deal. have a great day"
W used to call me all the time when we were going to work. That was something that made her feel good, and me ffeel good. We typically don't have time to talk when we are getting ready and getting the kids ready for school. so it was a pleasant break. We'll see if we continue this
"Do what you can With what you have Where you are" - Theo. Roosevelt
