Speaking from my own experiences... It is easy to get sucked into the WAS vortex...

What does she mean? Why did she say that? Why did she do that?

This is where DBing really comes into play. Stop the thinking. The pondering. The what ifs. The whatevers.

These things will just exacerbate the whole process.

I agree with AS in that it is good that she is reaching out.

“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter

M - 06/01
D - 05/14