I sent him a message that said that include I don't hold any bad feelings or judge him for anything in the past. No response to it, but usually that means it has an emotional effect on him. If he wants to brush me off, he says "Thanks."
Yes, your message does have an impact on H and he's processing it internally. Let him be..I suspect that he may make a comment to you on this sometime soon.
Originally Posted By: Raine
What do you think about me initiating a hug with him more? After this hug, I felt like I should hug him before he leaves in the morning or comes home from work or both. I know he has massive fears of being rejected by me. I don't see him initiating a hug with me, but I also don't see him ever rejecting it.
I would suggest that you mix things up with various non-sexual touches to slowly build up connection between the two of you. A touch on his shoulder, touching his lower back, etc. will aid the process. The one action that I still remember from Ms. Wonka that sticks in my mind to this day. One morning, as she left for work early and I was still asleep in bed, she bent over me gently and planted a soft kiss on my cheek. That was really nice.
