.... I asked H if he would like to come. He kind of sighed and said "I don't know." I did not mention anything else to him and just went and bought the tickets. (and did not buy one for him).
Hi CP, why doesn't he want to go? Is this something that he usually doesn't like? Or is it because of the others you invited? Or is there no good reason other than his apathy?
I think you invited him, and he more or less said no. So I would not talk to him about it again. It is good to do things apart from your spouse too. In this case, you seem excited to go, and if he is coerced into going, then he might bring you down. You'll be preoccuppied with him. Better to leave him at home.
If it comes up, or if you decide to bring it up in the next few weeks, I would try to get a more definitive response from him.
