Your wife sounds a bit like my hubby.. always having to stay busy keeping fit and doing activities! It is something I have learned to deal with but it does drive me crazy at times. We have 3 young children, and since they've been born, he has built a wood-working shop in our backyard, re-landscaped our backyard, renovated our entire basement, and other various jobs around our house. On top of that he is taking evening classes to get a university degree. He also plays volleyball and he also jogs and walks.

I always hoped that after a big project he would settle down for a bit and help with the kids around the house more. But there always seems to be another project. I guess I am lucky since he is doing things that benefit our family.

It's good that your wife is inviting you to go along with her to crossfit, that she is including you in activities. My H is slowly starting to open up to me like that again, just little things here and there. I find it's those little things that you take for granted when things are going well.

Have a good day,
-cp


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.