I will post here with this username as I too had my wife pursue me all over the internet.
So this is why I had another name to try to keep her from reading what I posted out in public.
Not an easy thing to do, I can tell you that.

I have been here for over four years and have thousands of posts on this site.
Normally I would say not to believe anything they say but you need to re-read what she wrote.
Can you move home and have no expectations?
That is what she asked you to do?
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She loves me but, she's still confused about a lot of stuff, but that she'd be fine with me at home and not to expect anything right away.

I do think you need to be able to communicate to have a new relationship.
Whether she is really ready for that or not is hard to say.
If you move back home I would not move out again.
That should be what she should have done.

Putting you marriage back together is not going to be easy.

You need to have 2 people that are willing.
So I guess that is the question, are you both willing to do the hard work?