What she's doing is just bullying you the way she has always done. You've buckled in the past (not being judgmental here) and she's seen success with this previously. No mystery here. Again, if you do leave what are the legal ramifications. She can say NO to a divorce in the previous agreed upon time period but she can't stop you from leaving. Check with your lawyer. This stuff s@cks so bad. I feel for you and your kids 'cuz I've been there.
