You're right, you have them 39% of the time or whatever your figure was. Being a parent is difficult and we all need a break at times.
Why don't you respond to her as you responded to me? Clearly, succinctly, stating your position without gameplaying or oneupmanship? You get to be in control of you in your interactions with her, you just don't realize it yet. Much like the phone conversation, you get to accept it the way you want, and respond in kind, "Oh, here's W asking a question, I'll answer it." Nothing more, nothing less.
Is it becoming clearer to you now?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
