MyPain, I would think you could start to validate his comments when he talks to you like that. Not to say you cannot still stand up for yourself and state you don't want to be spoken to like that. My two cents worth.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
